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I believe, that man and woman in couple should be a little similar one to another. I am not about appearance of course and even not about interests and hobbies, but about life position and rhythm. The main is not who you are or who I am but how this will work in combination. I think, that kindness and openness is important, loyalty and understanding.
Female (45) Chicago, Illinois
Experienced lifestyle Femdom and sensual sadist devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. Exclusively interested in D/s power exchange dynamics with lifestyle submissives. Beyond fetish, I’m a post punk/new wave/EBM/industrial/metal enthusiast, erotic dancer, solo polyamorist, gamer, aspiring psychotherapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films.
Female (29) Chicago, Illinois
I don't chase attention I command respect, my time is earned, not assumed, If you approach me, do so with honesty, discipline, and self-control, I expect consistency, maturity, and the ability to follow instructions without excuses, empty promises, entitlement, and disrespect will earn you nothing but dismissal, submission is demonstrated through actions, not words, know your place, respect boundaries, and understand that trust is earned over time, I value loyalty, patience, discretion, and those who can remain composed under guidance, if you're looking for someone to indulge your fantasies without effort, keep scrolling, If you're prepared to prove your character, discipline, and commitment, then you may request my attention
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I may seem simple and quiet, but I have a soft touch and a way of making people melt without even trying. If you’re curious how that feels, send me a message
Female (24) Chicago, Illinois
I'm everything you've been missing, all wrapped up in a pretty package. The way I break you down with ease, turning you into an obedient pet, eager for my pleasure. I know exactly how to get inside your head.Come to me knowing I will make you pay. One way or the other … 💜
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a domme/cuckoldress in a loving relationship with my sub. Occasionally I seek to be more fully satisfied by other people, especially if they have a massive ***. Looking for female play partners too. •CHI LOCALS ONLY and sorry 21+ pls •Not looking for another sub, bulls •ladies welcomed •Natural hair and natural bush, curvy body
Female (24) Chicago, Illinois
meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
Wanna be my Sub 😌 Sweet face. Mean intentions. I enjoy control, tension, teasing, and people who know how to earn my attention. Red lights, black satin, and good behavior only. If you understand appreciation and energy exchange, we’ll get along just fine. 🖤
Female (29) Chicago, Illinois
HI there im a potty training little with a big personality who likes movies, games,dnd and exploring im also a demisexual or ace please message me about anything but don't throw sex at me first thing
Female (26) Chicago, Illinois
I just realized some of yall got it all wrong so let me get this straight. I have a nice bratty behavior which dominants find interesting but turning me on could be hard for softies or those who are new to the world of kink. Plus, I do not send nudes in first conversation because I simply don’t want to. At this point, I’m not looking for anything permanent (exceptions might happen) or too weird, Im open to roleplaying and sexting if we connect and vibe. I love sex toys and bondage equipments, thats kinda my favorite kink of all. In roleplays I like bdsm, r*peplay, maybe groupfuck (idk it sounds exciting unless you want me to be a dom) I have never flirted or sexted with any women before but I wanna try it out so that may work or not, consider me a newbie mistresses! Men/Women under 22 and above 35 please please do not waste your time texting me.
Female (22) Chicago, Illinois
Just a regular woman who enjoys showing herself off for her husband. We have fun taking our pics and they turn out too good not to share, right? I am never wanting any other cocks in my life. Nobody will 'own' me and nobody will ever control me. Not a slut, just sexy. I am submissive to my hubs because of 30 years of trust built up. I met my husband when I was 12. He was a family friend. It was love at first site. That love has grown every second of every day to this very sentence. We finally got together in 2017. Married in 2020 and it's been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I still get butterflies when I think of him. He can still make me wet by just touching my arm. I am not going to fuck you - ever. I am not that type of girl; never have been. Posting is just a fun dirty little thing we do. We discuss it over a glass of wine or five when he is done with work. I don't do this for attention. I was a bartender for 20 years - I am over getting attention. I do it for him. Also, I do not share pics right away. Please don't just come on and ask for pics.
Female (48) Chicago, Illinois
I'm searching for specific humans right now please read. I'm a switch. I'm polyamorous and already have one partner who is submissive to me I don't have the capacity to take on another submissive partner. I'm looking for someone who would enjoy playing the role of my "owner". I'm a puppy girl and I really want to be able to turn my brain off and go puppy mode. I'm not into ***, but light spanking would be okay. I like a little bit of *** and being directed to do as I'm told. I especially enjoy being told to do tricks, and being "in heat". I like being leashed but I also have sensory issues and would need to find something that doesnt mess with that. Who ever my next play partner is will need to be patient in the vetting process. I'm open to sexting early on but physical touch is something that I have to get to know someone for.
Female (31) Chicago, Illinois
I am a mature African American woman interested in meeting a mature black man in the age bracket of 50 to 70 years old who is interested in building a friendship that can lead to a vanilla/D/s Monogomous relationship.
Female (62) Chicago, Illinois
I am an active and dynamic woman with a neutral character. I enjoy everything good in my life. I feel strong, stable and self-realized. I am satisfied with my life and I feel that today I am ready for the next serious step in my life.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
Hello! Although I have explored in the bedroom a bit I am relatively new to most things in this community so first and foremost I am looking for someone I can safely explore with. Even though I am slut I am very big on respect and manners, so make sure you start with both! I love a good conversation, ***s, to cook, and read. Recommend your favorite book! I am also a full-time college student who is really looking forward to studying abroad in Greece. If anyone is feeling generous let me know!
Female (21) Chicago, Illinois
I am happily owned and collard by my Master. He allows me to play around and experiment openly, but I am currently only looking for female/non-binary play partners. Male inquiries will not receive a response.
Female (24) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a well experienced dominant mistress who is on the lookout for a loyal and obedient sub who is keen to learn and serve me.
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I'm new to this lifestyle and I would like to be shown how it works. I have also never been in a relationship like this. I am also a virgin. **Desires and Fantasies** I would like to be a submissive to a dominant.
Female (24) Chicago, Illinois
Size 👑 Giving is just as important as receiving Everything starts with mutual respect, honesty and real friendship Age doesn’t matter to me 🐆 Local ONLY— not interested in long distance 🙃
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
looking to cuck my bf (or just hookups/photo swap) icebreaker: you get to do whatever you want with me, how are you starting? if I like your answer I might show you my private gallery :)
Female (21) Chicago, Illinois
To be very clear - I’m looking for a long-term relationship, or at least the potential for one! I’m adventurous, playful, and witty! I enjoy exploring kinks but I’m not looking for short-term fun or flings, I’d like to meet a long-term partner who can fulfill me. Hoping to meet someone I can genuinely connect with emotionally, intellectually, and physically! I like my men certifiably obsessed with me lol so if that’s not your M.O. then we probably wont work. I deeply value a man that puts in the time, energy, effort, and is intentional in pursuing me. Spoil me? Also, since I get SO many compliments on the eyes, I feel the need to disclose that they are contacts! My natural eyes are brown lol sorry to disappoint. One of my pics shows me with my natural eyes.
Female (31) Chicago, Illinois
Back again, but only for the yearners and pleasers. A round the way girl in a busy world. And I love getting my way. Let me be as mean as I want to you, and you promise to never be mean back. 🥰 Also, a Hot MILF if that means anything to you! Love, Malkia Mia ps. beg me for my telegram 💋
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a submissive masochist. Never heard of this app before but thought I’d try it out. I’ve never had a true dominant and I hope to experience that soon. btw I am a mom of 1 so for anyone who wants to seriously gets to know me, just know I have a real life with real responsibilities.
Female (21) Chicago, Illinois
inexperienced and looking to explore! i’d like to make a genuine connection first before anything else happens. please be patient with me because i’m new to this lol 😭
Female (20) Chicago, Illinois

New members in Chicago

I believe, that man and woman in couple should be a little similar one to another. I am not about appearance of course and even not about interests and hobbies, but about life position and rhythm. The main is not who you are or who I am but how this will work in combination. I think, that kindness and openness is important, loyalty and understanding.
Female (45) Chicago, Illinois
I may seem simple and quiet, but I have a soft touch and a way of making people melt without even trying. If you’re curious how that feels, send me a message
Female (24) Chicago, Illinois
I don't chase attention I command respect, my time is earned, not assumed, If you approach me, do so with honesty, discipline, and self-control, I expect consistency, maturity, and the ability to follow instructions without excuses, empty promises, entitlement, and disrespect will earn you nothing but dismissal, submission is demonstrated through actions, not words, know your place, respect boundaries, and understand that trust is earned over time, I value loyalty, patience, discretion, and those who can remain composed under guidance, if you're looking for someone to indulge your fantasies without effort, keep scrolling, If you're prepared to prove your character, discipline, and commitment, then you may request my attention
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a well experienced dominant mistress who is on the lookout for a loyal and obedient sub who is keen to learn and serve me.
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I am an active and dynamic woman with a neutral character. I enjoy everything good in my life. I feel strong, stable and self-realized. I am satisfied with my life and I feel that today I am ready for the next serious step in my life.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
Experienced lifestyle Femdom and sensual sadist devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. Exclusively interested in D/s power exchange dynamics with lifestyle submissives. Beyond fetish, I’m a post punk/new wave/EBM/industrial/metal enthusiast, erotic dancer, solo polyamorist, gamer, aspiring psychotherapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films.
Female (29) Chicago, Illinois
HI there im a potty training little with a big personality who likes movies, games,dnd and exploring im also a demisexual or ace please message me about anything but don't throw sex at me first thing
Female (26) Chicago, Illinois
Wanna be my Sub 😌 Sweet face. Mean intentions. I enjoy control, tension, teasing, and people who know how to earn my attention. Red lights, black satin, and good behavior only. If you understand appreciation and energy exchange, we’ll get along just fine. 🖤
Female (29) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a domme/cuckoldress in a loving relationship with my sub. Occasionally I seek to be more fully satisfied by other people, especially if they have a massive ***. Looking for female play partners too. •CHI LOCALS ONLY and sorry 21+ pls •Not looking for another sub, bulls •ladies welcomed •Natural hair and natural bush, curvy body
Female (24) Chicago, Illinois
meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
I'm everything you've been missing, all wrapped up in a pretty package. The way I break you down with ease, turning you into an obedient pet, eager for my pleasure. I know exactly how to get inside your head.Come to me knowing I will make you pay. One way or the other … 💜
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I'm searching for specific humans right now please read. I'm a switch. I'm polyamorous and already have one partner who is submissive to me I don't have the capacity to take on another submissive partner. I'm looking for someone who would enjoy playing the role of my "owner". I'm a puppy girl and I really want to be able to turn my brain off and go puppy mode. I'm not into ***, but light spanking would be okay. I like a little bit of *** and being directed to do as I'm told. I especially enjoy being told to do tricks, and being "in heat". I like being leashed but I also have sensory issues and would need to find something that doesnt mess with that. Who ever my next play partner is will need to be patient in the vetting process. I'm open to sexting early on but physical touch is something that I have to get to know someone for.
Female (31) Chicago, Illinois
Hello! Although I have explored in the bedroom a bit I am relatively new to most things in this community so first and foremost I am looking for someone I can safely explore with. Even though I am slut I am very big on respect and manners, so make sure you start with both! I love a good conversation, ***s, to cook, and read. Recommend your favorite book! I am also a full-time college student who is really looking forward to studying abroad in Greece. If anyone is feeling generous let me know!
Female (21) Chicago, Illinois
I am happily owned and collard by my Master. He allows me to play around and experiment openly, but I am currently only looking for female/non-binary play partners. Male inquiries will not receive a response.
Female (24) Chicago, Illinois
I am a mature African American woman interested in meeting a mature black man in the age bracket of 50 to 70 years old who is interested in building a friendship that can lead to a vanilla/D/s Monogomous relationship.
Female (62) Chicago, Illinois
I just realized some of yall got it all wrong so let me get this straight. I have a nice bratty behavior which dominants find interesting but turning me on could be hard for softies or those who are new to the world of kink. Plus, I do not send nudes in first conversation because I simply don’t want to. At this point, I’m not looking for anything permanent (exceptions might happen) or too weird, Im open to roleplaying and sexting if we connect and vibe. I love sex toys and bondage equipments, thats kinda my favorite kink of all. In roleplays I like bdsm, r*peplay, maybe groupfuck (idk it sounds exciting unless you want me to be a dom) I have never flirted or sexted with any women before but I wanna try it out so that may work or not, consider me a newbie mistresses! Men/Women under 22 and above 35 please please do not waste your time texting me.
Female (22) Chicago, Illinois
Just a regular woman who enjoys showing herself off for her husband. We have fun taking our pics and they turn out too good not to share, right? I am never wanting any other cocks in my life. Nobody will 'own' me and nobody will ever control me. Not a slut, just sexy. I am submissive to my hubs because of 30 years of trust built up. I met my husband when I was 12. He was a family friend. It was love at first site. That love has grown every second of every day to this very sentence. We finally got together in 2017. Married in 2020 and it's been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I still get butterflies when I think of him. He can still make me wet by just touching my arm. I am not going to fuck you - ever. I am not that type of girl; never have been. Posting is just a fun dirty little thing we do. We discuss it over a glass of wine or five when he is done with work. I don't do this for attention. I was a bartender for 20 years - I am over getting attention. I do it for him. Also, I do not share pics right away. Please don't just come on and ask for pics.
Female (48) Chicago, Illinois
I'm new to this lifestyle and I would like to be shown how it works. I have also never been in a relationship like this. I am also a virgin. **Desires and Fantasies** I would like to be a submissive to a dominant.
Female (24) Chicago, Illinois
open minded and always looking to learn more about myself. mostly dominant, but would love to explore my submissive side and seeing where my limits are. Open to trying new things, including restraint, tickling, and other forms of power exchange :P
Female (23) Chicago, Illinois
I’m new here, and I’m still relatively new to exploring this side of myself. In real life, it’s been incredibly difficult to find a Dominant who truly inspires trust, has experience, and has the presence to genuinely take control of me. I’m not looking for someone who simply calls themselves a Dom—I’m looking for someone who understands BDSM, values consent, respects boundaries, and knows how to build a healthy power exchange. I’m also drawn to someone who’s classy, well-mannered, emotionally mature, and confident without needing to prove it. Intelligence, discretion, and good conversation are just as attractive to me as chemistry. That’s why I decided to join FetLife. Maybe this is where I’ll finally find that connection. If you message me, please be respectful. I’d rather get to know someone first and see if there’s real compatibility before anything else.
Female (39) Chicago, Illinois
I’m open to friend with benefits strictly fun nothing attached Trying new things, being playful, being a little greedy with each other because there’s no long-term script we have to follow. Just pure want, good communication, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a lot more interesting. That’s what pulls me in.
Female (23) Chicago, Illinois
Single woman looking to have some fun. Open to ons or a long term fwb. I enjoy being a submissive little whore for daddy. Message me for pics.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
Looking to explore my domme side with an experienced sub. Also meet queer cuties. open to other dynamics as well, but very particular with dom men.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
Back again, but only for the yearners and pleasers. A round the way girl in a busy world. And I love getting my way. Let me be as mean as I want to you, and you promise to never be mean back. 🥰 Also, a Hot MILF if that means anything to you! Love, Malkia Mia ps. beg me for my telegram 💋
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois

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